I am just taking the advice of a friend and thinking outside of the box, can anything good come from meeting somebody in a club I don't know but I was willing to try that too so why not, I love to shop,travel, spend time with friends and family and just enjoy life. I think I am easy to get along with, but I will let you be the judge. Looking For: Im looking for a man who is self-assured, but a gentleman. He knows what he wants out of life and is not intimidated by a woman who has a career.