Single Again After 10 Years...Now What??

Ok..Not really sure what I'm doing..lol.the last time I was single I was in my early 20's with no kids and no responsiblities My how things change!I am a basic member but if you want to chat aim to find me. The main thing you've gotta know about me is that I have 3 beautiful (and sometimes evil)little girls who will always come 1st with me. So if you don't mind being 4th in line that by all means read on!I'm a real easy person to get along with,I try to make the best of any situation.I'm also very honest,caring,affectionate, & trusting (most say too trusting and more that a little gullible!) I joined this site because right now I am overweight and at least here it's not a surprise, but I am in the process of preparing for lab band surgery (low risk weight loss surgery) I'm very committed to making myself as healthy and fit as I can in order to be a better mom for my young children, So if you're into working out and getting or staying in shape I'd love the company, not to mention some encouragement when I want to quit! I'm a very social person, love going out and meeting new people.Before having kids (when I had a social life! lol)I was a karaoke junkie and at one time a karaoke dj.I've been singing since I was about 7 and still do when I can find a sitter. I am also someone who's just as happy cuddling up on the couch and watching a movie...I do that now but I remember it being so much nicer to have someone to cuddle up with! Looking For: I'm interested in meeting someone who loves to laugh and make others laugh. Someone who is social as well as liking the quiet times too.(not that there are many quiet times in my life!). He must be affectionate, caring, honest, and have alot of patience (I have 3 kids remember?!) Please no control freaks! Been there and oh so done with that!