Looking for friends first then see how it goes

I am looking for a man to meet a good woman. I'm a single that wants friends first, take things slow and see where it goes. I love music mainly Hip Hop and R&B but I can jam to anything except opera. I can cook. Some of my friends call me Shaniqua Crocker in the kitchen. I'm a BBW 5'8" and *** pounds in other words I'm a big girl with lots of junk in da trunk. I go to the movies, museums, parks, and concerts when I have the time. I'm the girl that everyone says is the sweet, fun, and friendly listener. Looking For: I want a straight man. Not married no drama please. Average to nice shape I wouldn't want a man too large ( If you seen Queens of Comedy you know what I mean). You must have the usual basics job, car, apt/home,ect. Someone I can go to the bookstore with (Borders, Half Price Books), or just hang out relaxed at home or go on a nice nite out.