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Never Married
Washington, District Of Columbia
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In their own words

Full-Figured Black Lady Seeking a Lifetime Friend & Companion

I am a full-figured, Black lady living within the inner city limits of Washington, DC. As a, true-to-form, taurean lady, I am known by others to be very dependable, honest, and loyal. I am reserved, relaxed, intellectual and witty. I can also be serious, cynical, and extremely bull-headed. I am a college educated professional analyst and paralegal with a bachelors in Psychology. While one might judge my character solely upon my outer appearance (as a Black BBW), I am more than a size, race, or whatever grouping one may assign. More importantly, I am uniquely ME. I am an intellectual professional who prefers provoking conversations over pickup lines and bedroom babble. With a philosophical inclination somewhere between Darwin and Nietzsche, it is best said: to know and accept the person I am, takes time and sincere effort. Note also that I have HSV-2. While I am a homebody, I am a world traveler (I have been to Germany, England, Denmark, Japan, and hope to visit others); Literature; Music (Primarily J-Rock & Downtempo: Acid Jazz and Trip-Hop); Arts/Theatre. I also love anime & manga (a total otaku). Who am I seeking? I am seeking a local, single, classy professional gentleman who wants a long term relationship built on friendship first. He should have traveled internationally, be well read, and have an interest in world culture and the arts. He should be a professional who knows how to take time from work to enjoy the subtleties of life.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Voluptuous
Height
5'  9"   (175 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Never
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
Maybe
Religion
Agnostic
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Government / Civil Service / Public Policy
Income
$75,000 - $100,000
Exercise
None
Politics
Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Acoustic, Alternative, Classical, Classic Rock, Dance / Electronica / House, Hard Rock / Metal, Hard Rock / Metal, New Age, Punk
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Gary Oldman; Jude Law;
Favorite Actresses
Michelle Peiffer; Meg Ryan; Jodie Foster; Clair Danes
Favorite Artists
Lenny Kravitz
Favorite Authors
none
Favorite Bands
The Gazette
Favorite Hangouts
Home, Book Stores, Libraries, and Cafes
Favorite Books
The Picture of Dorian Gray
Favorite Cities
Prague
Favorite Clothing Stores
Lane Bryant
Favorite Colors
Fuchsia
Favorite Country
Aruba
Favorite Drinks
Sweetened Raspberry Ice Tea
Favorite Fashion Designers
Etienne Aigner and Liz Clairborne
Favorite Fast Foods
California Tortilla and Burger King
Favorite Magazines
Architectual Digest
Favorite Comedies
Guess Who
Favorite Dramas
Rebecca
Favorite Horror Movies
Bram Stoker's Dracula
Favorite Action Movies
The Watchmen
Favorite News Anchor
Anderson Cooper
Favorite Night Clubs
The 18th Street Lounge
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
In Private
Favorite Plays
Operetta: Carmina Burana; Operas: Madame Butterfly and Figaro
Favorite Politicians
None
Favorite Sports Teams
None
Favorite Restaurants
The Outback
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Sing Along My Children (Stripmall Architecture);Gate of Death (UnsraW);Sara (Matenrou Opera);Razer Tongue b(Martina Topley-Bird)
Favorite Sports
None
Favorite TV Comedies
Seinfeld, Mad About You, That's 70's Show, Third Rock
Favorite TV Dramas
True Blood, Lost Girl, Supernatural
Favorite TV News Sources
CNN
Favorite Foods
Greek dishes, Peach Cobbler, Roast Beef, Spinach, Ben & Jerry's Chocolate Fudge Brownie, & Whipped Strawberry Yogurt
Favorite Styles Of Music
J-Rock (especially Visual Kei Bands) and Downtempo (trip-hop/acid jazz)
Interests
Animals
wolves, big cats, bear cubs
Art
Surrealism, sculptures; Dali, Bosch, Rodin
Astrology
Taurus
Dogs and Cats
both Dogs and Cats but Cats are my favorite and I have two
Drawing
doodles and abstracts but not so much now
Opera
Carmina Burana; Madame Butterfly
Reading
Vampires, Philosophy, mythology, some Fantasy/Sci-Fi, and erotic romance fiction
Religion
Agnostic; Taoism;
Theater
Follies
Video Games
RPGs/MMORPGs (Currently playing The Secret World and will play Guild Wars 2)
Writing
Poetry and short stories
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Very Skeptical
Confidence Average
Independence Very Independent
Mood Somewhat Chill
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Very Introverted
Thought Process Average
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Very Low
Go Party Never
Religion Not a Part At All
Neatness Not Too Neat
Punctuality Always Early
Spending Average
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
Describe your perfect weekend.
A short excursion to a bed and breakfast on a weekend trip touring with a picnic at a park just spending time together outdoors.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
No. I believe in lust and infatuation at first sight. To love someone I think one needs to know the total person inside and out
How many kids would you like to have?
I don't really think about having children. Honestly, I may not be able to have them, but maybe in a committed relationship.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
I'm not going to say it doesn't matter because at some base level we all have an innate visual preference; however, I strongly believe what's on the outside can not overrule what's more importantly on the inside. A beautiful evil person is simply ugly in my book while an not so beautiful caring and loving person is a priceless friend to have.
What is the purpose of marriage?
I think marriage as a symbol and sentiment for commitment and love between two people is very beautiful.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Everyone is different (no two people -not even twins- are alike). Assumptions and stereotyping are tools for division and hate.
What do your friends like about you most?
I'm honest and trustworthy.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
That I'm harsh and I give them dirty looks (which they think are funny) when they say something I feel is silly or stupid.
What gets on your nerves?
Optimistically blind people; it's good to be positive but not to the point you're ignoring the bad things that need to be handled
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
commitment - passion and intimacy are important also; however, without commitment a relationship can't endure time.
What's the best age to get married?
Any age is good if the love is sincere and not just because hormones are in full effect.
What turns you off?
People who want No Strings Attached sex and play. What's the point? Momentary relieve is momentary. The next day/hour, its gone
What turns you on?
Passion in the eyes and actions of someone who wants another person not just for the moment but for as long as they can have them
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Spending my free time with a significant other. Traveling the world, working as I currently am (i'm satisfied with my job)
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