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Female
Widowed
Carpinteria, California
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Lady in the Office, Cook in the kitchen, and a----

Hello to all from Sunny california. (Just because I live here does not mean I won't relocate because I MOST CERTAINLY WILL for the right person.) Do You like sunsets,slow walks, window shopping, the arts, good food, good friends and most of all ...the sound of the one you love laughing...then we really need to talk. I am self employed and have been for the past 9 years. Single now for 14 years, I find myself searching for some one to grow old with as none of us want to do it alone. A sense of humor is very important to me. As an avid reader my tastes run form Anne Rice to Tom Clancy and Dan Brown to Kahlil Gibran. My taste in music is just as eclectic. I love museums and tractor pulls as well as classical concerts and plays. But all of these are so much more fun with the right person to share them. I am optimistic that there is a man out there who is searching for the same. Please be either employed or retired with time and funds to travel. (Retired is NOT the same as unemployed). Please please be over 53 years old. I never had children and am not looking for a younger man. It just saves time if we are honest about these things. I believe it was W B Yeats that said "Truth is beauty and beauty truth and that is all ye need to know in the world". I am very affectionate and love to try new and sensual things. Am not afraid to explore, with the right mate, all that makes us feel good. However, if we cannot laugh then we are not doing it right. Looking For: My partner should be a man who is comfortable in jeans and a flannel shirt as well as a tuxedo. TABLE MANNERS ARE A MUST!!! My man must be willing to show affection in public as well as know when it is not appropriate. We must be able to laugh together at life and yet be sensible enough to know that we live in the real world. The man of my dreams must be able to know the difference between those who have their heads in the clouds and those who have their head up their A--. I guess You could say I am looking for a sensual, sensible, intelligent and patient man who will appreciate me for my mind as well as for my enthuiasm for life and it's many pleasures. Of course if he loves to kiss and cuddle then I shall be the happiest person on earth.

Appearance
Best Feature
I'll tell you later
Eyes
Blue
Physique
Voluptuous
Height
5'  4"   (163 cm)
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Trying to Quit
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Agnostic
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Entrepreneurial / Start Up
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Liberal
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Blues, Classic Rock, Classical, Middle Eastern / Persian / Arabic, Hard Rock / Metal, New Age, Reggae, Latin, Acoustic
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Tommy Lee Jones
Favorite Actresses
Katherine Hepburn
Favorite Artists
Chagall and Degas
Favorite Athletes
Jan Stenerud
Favorite Authors
Anne Rice
Favorite Bands
Grateful Dead
Favorite Books
The Source by James Mitchner
Favorite Cities
Seattle
Favorite Colors
Blue and Mauve and Dove Grey
Favorite Country
New Zealand and Italy
Favorite Drinks
Diet Dr. Pepper and Gold Tequila (not mixed together though)
Favorite Fast Foods
Wendy's
Favorite Magazines
National Geographic
Favorite Comedies
American Wedding
Favorite Dramas
African Queen
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Lips and neck (can't mention the other)
Favorite Politicians
Julian Bond
Favorite Sports Teams
Denver Broncos
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Jessica by the Alleman Brothers
Favorite TV Dramas
Deadwood, Sopranos
Favorite Foods
Prime Rib
Favorite Styles Of Music
Classic Rock
Interests
Animals
Love them, have a cat love all
Antiques
Like them
Art
Love it all kinds
Astrology
believe in it
Barbecues
Fun for friends
Biology
One of my best subjects in school
Board Games
Scrabble expert
Camping
Love to
Card Games
Spades, hearts, Bridge
Cars
Love to drive
Comedy
Love the Improv
Community Service
Everyone should do one hour per week
Cooking
Favorite!!
Dogs and Cats
Love them
Drawing
Like too
Food
Gotta have it
Live Concerts
YEs please
Medicine
Take some
Opera
Yes
Painting
Yes
Pets
Yes
Photography
Yes
Radio
Love to listen
Reading
Reading is a great pleasure
Shopping
Yes
Television
Sometimes
Walking
Yes
Writing
Love to write erotica
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Average
Independence Average
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Extroverted
Thought Process Average
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Somewhat High
Go Party Rarely
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Average
Work Ethic Average
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
A trip to somewhere we have never been, a wonderful meal, soft lights, sensual music, a hundred candles lit in a room with a balcony over looking a spectacular mooonlit view of mountains or the sea. Standing there on that balcony, his arms around me, and we are smiling at each other because we are so lucky to have found each other.
How many kids would you like to have?
I had no children, never wanted any even though I like them. I am more Aunt Mame than the mother type.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
I would like a smaller belly and longer hair, but I am what I am so we deal with it.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
I would love to be able to make food grow more quickly so people would not be starving.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My heart is on my sleeve.
What gets on your nerves?
RUDENESS AND BAD MANNERS!!!!
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Honesty and laughter.
What turns you off?
Bad breath,body odor and sarcasm.
What turns you on?
A well read, literate, curious mind. Kisses and cuddling, no fear in sharing fantasies.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Hand in hand with my man taking a nice stroll down a street we have never been to before