I am a 40 year old professional woman, never married and have not children-although someday I would like both. I'm not sure that children are in the cards for me, so I would treat my mates children as my own. I am independent and have a strong personality, so I need a man who can reel me in when needed. I enjoy independent films, most all types of music, crossword puzzles and confess to being a reality show junkie. I laugh loud and often - and mostly at myself. If you think we'd be a match, I 'd love to chat. Looking For: I am looking for a nice, funny, employed, stable, honest, trustworthy, sensitive, sexy man with integrity and love of life. Someone who is secure with themselves and likes to have fun. Good spelling skills and grammar are a must.