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Never Married
Greensboro, North Carolina
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A Real Sweetheart....And Reality Checked

I'm a 39 yr old full time doctorate student and writer with very traditional beliefs of male/female relationships. I've been blessed by God, my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, to accomplish alot of my goals as a single woman....not looking to be rich, but comfortable. I'm very spiritual, active/busy, I'm a real and confident*(low self esteem is not in my vocabulary)down-to-earth "reformed badgirl"/church girl; committed to my studies and the continued meaningful work I do with children and families in crisis. FYI:I will not satisfy a curiosity or a temporary fetish for no man! I want all or nothing!So if you think you can rock with me...make it happen! smile. Looking For: I'm looking for a true gentlemen; who is single, self reliant, mentally/emotionally stable and available, educated, focused, well groomed, marriage minded, a hardworker, trustworthy, independent and capable of committment. He will have his reality checked at the door(challenge me); and be an individual who is matured beyond society trends and superficial standards...He'll understand that being realistic about what he wants coupled with a little flexibility, could lead him to what he desires the most; in an unexpected package....me!

Appearance
Best Feature
Lips
Hair
Black
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Voluptuous
Height
5'  4"   (163 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
Black / African descent
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Christian
Education
Master's Degree
Occupation
Medical / Health / Fitness / Social Services
Income
$75,000 - $100,000
Exercise
I'll tell you later
Politics
I'll tell you later
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Gospel
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Will Smith
Favorite Actresses
Julia Stiles
Favorite Artists
Maxwell, Sugarland
Favorite Authors
Max Lucado, Jackie Collins
Favorite Books
He Chose The Nails, The Poisonwood Bible, Lucky
Favorite Cities
NYC
Favorite Clothing Stores
Katherines
Favorite Colors
Purple
Favorite Country
Italy
Favorite Drinks
Pepsi
Favorite Fashion Designers
Laura Ashley
Favorite Fast Foods
Jack In The Box
Favorite Magazines
Essence
Favorite Comedies
The Three Fugitives
Favorite Dramas
Love Actually
Favorite Horror Movies
Nightmare On Elm Street
Favorite Action Movies
Bad Boys I II
Favorite News Anchor
Brian Williams
Favorite Night Clubs
n/a
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
My neck, back, and mouth
Favorite Plays
Pipin
Favorite Politicians
Barak Obama
Favorite Sports Teams
Philadelphia Eagles
Favorite Restaurants
Frankie's Italian Grill
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Take Me Away
Favorite Sports
Basketball
Favorite Stocks
Disney
Favorite TV Comedies
Big Bang Theory
Favorite TV Dramas
Supernatural
Favorite TV News Sources
CBS
Favorite Foods
Italian
Favorite Styles Of Music
Gospel and R&B
Interests
Board Games
favorite past time
Children
most interesting people
Comedy
laughter heals alot of hurt
Community Service
my duty
Dating
redundant
Exercise
not enough dicipline
Movies
love a good action/adventure or scifi
Pets
love my dog(jade)...passed away 4/2010 I have a new puppy
Photography
captured memories
Psychology
childrens well being
Radio
always on
Reading
devour books
Rugs
beautiful things
Running
yeah right
School
education is key
Shopping
make it quick
Singing
all by myself or in church
Technology
never ceases to amaze me
Television
my companion
Theater
my excitement
Traveling
my desire
Video Games
stress reliever
Walking
a priviledge
Writing
my therapy/personal expression
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Cautious
Affectionateness Average
Trustingness Very Skeptical
Confidence Somewhat Humble
Independence Very Dependent
Mood Average
Romance Average
Sociability Average
Thought Process Somewhat Analytical
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Somewhat High
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Average
Work Ethic Workaholic
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
At home, when it's quiet, snowing or raining outside; and there's cocoa/popcorn, a good action/adventure or sci-fi movie on, and cuddle in the arms of the man who loves me, desires, and protects me.
Describe your perfect weekend.
A Caswell Beach, NC getaway.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Not really.
How many kids would you like to have?
Unfortunately, I can no longer have children.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Reasonably important...I'm not superficial though.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
I would comfort and heal the broken hearted,the wounded, and the rejected. I would eradicate the abuse and neglect of children and defenseless individuals; and find a cure for mental illness and cancer. I would also find a solution to end hunger, unemployment/poverty and drug/alcohol addiction.
What is the purpose of marriage?
A union between man/woman blessed by God for life helpmates/companionship..."it is not good for man to be alone."
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Family is not always defined by blood.
What do your friends like about you most?
I am a free counselor/therapist for them.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
That I look like a cute babydoll.
What gets on your nerves?
When someone tries to tell me how to feel about something that's not happening to them.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Real and true friendship..."Love hath no greater bond than that of a friend."
What's the best age to get married?
I wasn't really ready nor prepared to be before 30.
What turns you off?
Ebonics, ignorance/immaturity, slang speech, and vulgar profanity and disrespect.
What turns you on?
I love a man who is well dressed/groomed and smells good.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
If it is the Lord's will, retired, married, and having some restful and relaxing travels.