I'm a 39 yr old full time doctorate student and writer with very traditional beliefs of male/female relationships. I've been blessed by God, my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, to accomplish alot of my goals as a single woman....not looking to be rich, but comfortable. I'm very spiritual, active/busy, I'm a real and confident*(low self esteem is not in my vocabulary)down-to-earth "reformed badgirl"/church girl; committed to my studies and the continued meaningful work I do with children and families in crisis. FYI:I will not satisfy a curiosity or a temporary fetish for no man! I want all or nothing!So if you think you can rock with me...make it happen! smile. Looking For: I'm looking for a true gentlemen; who is single, self reliant, mentally/emotionally stable and available, educated, focused, well groomed, marriage minded, a hardworker, trustworthy, independent and capable of committment. He will have his reality checked at the door(challenge me); and be an individual who is matured beyond society trends and superficial standards...He'll understand that being realistic about what he wants coupled with a little flexibility, could lead him to what he desires the most; in an unexpected package....me!