Teddy Bear Looking for a New Pair of Arms

31 yr old Big, Handsome, Black Male residing in Madison, WI. I work in Telecommunications/Sales If I could describe myself in 5 words, it would be independent, romantic, spontaneous, witty, intelligent, and loyal. I love traveling, shopping, bowling, & reading. I'm a father (first and foremost) of 4 beautiful girls. I'm a entrepenuer by heart, I love to but my dreams into action. I work really hard, so when I have a free moment I like to have fun, and live for the moment. I hate being bored. Now that doesn't mean I like clubbing, not my style. If you would like to learn more about me, please drop me a line. Looking For: **Most important criteria is 1) No skinny girls 2) Must be comfortable with a big guy in public 3) No one who has low self esteem. Sorry, to sound mean, but I'm not interestested in dating someone not my type, or wasting time with someone who I'm not there type physically, and no time to help repair someone's self esteem this time around** I'm looking for someone who is funny, outgoing, intelligent, independendent, & financial stable on her own. I need someone who has an uninhibited nature about them. Someone spontaneous, affectiontionate, sexy, and very appealing. I like someone who can understand my career, my children, and my need to not be clingy. Race is not a problem. I am looking for something that will potentially lead to something serious.