in outgoing, quiet but speak my mind, bubbly and can be pretty sarcastic he has to have a sense of humor or at least get mine loll i don't go for shy people it makes me uncomfortable.:) lot that sounds bad...i mean uncomfortable as in the awkwardness around not known what to say and the silences ! Aster's rating & comment 4 out of 5 I couldn't choose a best answer seeing as everyone's personality and ideal personality are unique! So I hate it when people do this, but I just went for the first one... thanks everyone, all your answers have been brilliant. i don't know if i have an ideal type of personality that attacts me but IM kinda chatty and social but my bf is quite shy and reserved. but some of my ex's have been really confident so i dunno i think it just depends on the chemistry between two (or three whatever floats your boat lol) people. hope that helped =D x Me: I am nice and have a bubbly personality I talk alot. I care about people. I am shy until you get to know me. I'm not loud and crazy. I,m more of the quiet person. The Boy; IM attracted to shy people who are nice I like if his personality is gentle and loving Basically Just a sweet person that cares IM somewhat out going but still shy,I'll talk to people if they talk to me first. I wouldnt really want to date someone quiet,I hate having to keep the conversation going.So they'd definetly have to be somewhat outgoing atleast.