42-year-old woman with eclectic tastes in men, movies, and music. BBW is a trite expression; I prefer to be called a real woman. My only child is leaving for college in the fall, and it's time for me to fly. Looking For: I am looking for someone who can keep up with me intellectually and sexually. He must be someone who values family. He should be honest, loyal, and cuddly (sounds like a lab, doesn't it?)